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As Chrissie Hinds has said, a porn star will win a Grammy before another Joni Mitchell will.Where are the fire brand feminists such as Greer and Steinhem? Perhaps this article from the greatest piece of regular satire on the web, The Onion, is not as far fetched as it seems:http://www.theonion.com/content/news/man_finally_put_in_c...
#1. Scullion, very good comment, but I believe this to be an unknown phenonima, that roots from the dwindling birth rates. Whats the point in life to make a' 'Pot of Gold' or to be Miss 'Anti-Beanie' Genius!?Long time dead, 'huh'?This is the comment in the article, that says it all!"I think the problem is exaggerated. Nature wishes you to breed, so sexuality has always been there."My theory may be wrong, but think about it, its not a stupid as it meay sounds!And NO, Girls are 'NOT' taught, "to value sex over achievement and intelligence"They do it as, 'matter-off-course' these days.!
*..not a stupid as it meay sounds!.* should read, 'not as stupid as it may sound'!I got the BW syndrome, I go bed now!
1 in 4 children do not see their fathers as part of their immediate family or at all. 1 in 3 in poorer areas.
3 million + children in lone parent families (out of 12 million).
The evidence is clear that girls brought up without their father's in their lives are far more likely to have sex earlier and become pregnant earlier.
http://www.civitas.org.uk/pubs/experiments.php
Teenagers living without their biological fathersAre more likely to experience problems with sexual health
According to the National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles, children from lone-parent households were more likely to have had intercourse before the age of 16 when compared with children from two-natural-parent households.
Boys were 1.8 times as likely (42.3% versus 23%) and girls were 1.5 times as likely (36.5% versus 23.6%).
After controlling for socio-economic status, level of communication with parents, educational levels and age at menarche for girls, the comparative odds of underage sex actually increased to 2.29 for boys and 1.65 for girls.
Compared to young adults from two-natural parent households, young men from lone-parent households were 1.8 times as likely to have foregone contraception at first intercourse (13.6% versus 7.5%) and young women were 1.75 times as likely (16.1% versus 9.2%).
After controlling for other factors, these comparative odds were reduced to 1.11 for men and 1.23 for women.
Girls from lone-parent households were 1.6 times as likely to become mothers before the age of 18 (11% versus 6.8%).
Controlling for other factors did not reduce the comparative odds.
Are more likely to become teenage parents
Analysis of data from the National Child Development Study (NCDS) indicated that women whose parents had divorced were twice as likely to become teenage mothers as those from intact families (
#4 JeffGood post.
We have ourselves to blame for this .Too much sex being thrust on young girls via t/v,mags etc.The words of Frankie Goes To Hollywood ...sex is the new god......have come to pass.
What a load of rubbish! Typical from an American author and comlete nonsense. Perhaps this is true in the US, but I don't see it on a day to day basis here.
I agree with number 8.
You just need one woman to turn up at your local pub with a come hither look and the rest of the burds will start competing with each other the next week.
We do not see articles talking about men's competitiveness at sport/with each other above academic and real achivement either. Yet that exists for the same reasons.
I guess the idiots who write this drivel feel that millions of years of evolution is not affecting our behaviour these days.
"... Girls taught to value sex over achievement and intelligence ... "
Not in this house they're not! My daughters are intelligent and ambitious and will have careers before they start thinking of babies! My partner and I do something many parents don't do. We talk to our girls and don't fudge the issues. We tell them exactly what they want to know ... yet still allow them to have a childhood. Not tat view boys completely without distrust. I am a father after all. I know what my own half of the species can be like ...
But the nonsense peddled by magazines and ... let's be honest ... Americans who don't want children, but mini-adults ... is tempered with common sense in my household.
Be honest and straightforward with your children and watch carefully what they read and watch on TV if you want them to have a chance in life. The trailer-trash lives of the bimbos wit money is not the way to go!
*pls excuse typos ... or as Charles Linskaill calls it, the "BW Syndrome" ... for which I'll get him! :))
"she suggested girls now competed for attention based on how much they were sexually willing to do for boys."
I know the wrong girls.
Although saying that - there's nothing sexier than an intelligent woman.
Many highly intelligent females have worked their way through Uni by selling sexual wares some way or other. Possibly later in life turned into crabby staid academics. So what is new?? Intelligent people use what resources are available and do not need advice from the lame. Intelligence means the ability to use your noodle and not how many Harry Potter books you can read in an hour.
Womens job is screw and nurture. Mans Job is to screw and provide. Anything else like personal achievement is icing on the cake.
Nature seeks out agressive biological advantage. What I really can;t be bothered with is narrow minded people who think one kind of advantage or breeding strategy is better than another.
The key thing is not whether you pursue a career, academic achievent, harmony, a good home or sexual power. The key is how much drive and commitment you do it with and how well you come out of it at the end because the only thing that matters at the end of it is how much power and money do you have in order to give your offspring the best advantage.
If sex is your forte then go for it. If it's brains - more power to you. Feminists have this ludicrous idea that all women ought to be academicised and that sex is dirty and demeaning unless it's on their terms. This in itself is a breeding strategy. They are simply one type of seed pod and lack the overall vision to see it.
One could also argue the reason they hate promiscuous women is because they lower their (the feminists) value in the market place and make it harder to compete. It's nothing to do with morality, ethics or any hugh minded junk they might like to spout, it's about their breeding strategy and their unawareness that they even have one.
Well said BW (11). Completely agree!
I know what she means. For years I used to "put out" just to court popularity with girls who were only interested in my looks and satisfying their sexual appetites. Then I realised that I also had a brain and things went downhill from there basically...
So now its the famous peoples fault! Will we ever live in a world in which people are responsible for their own lot in life? This story is nonsense!
What a daft world.All these specialists in health ed. and health promotion wringing their hands at the escalating sexual disease stats. at the same time as films are getting raunchier,anyone can access porn on telly or elsewhere and all the kids mags and womans mags continue to perpetuate the myth of the perfect sexual act and all the means to achieve it.No wonder folk are flocking to expensive therapists at £80-£150 per hour to sort out their anxiety about not being perfect in the sack.It is all a marketing con -sexual imagery sells but creates massive social implications
With regard to how women or girls behave as being condusive to their own rape, I think it important to cite my own experience with my sons and the sexualized culture. The constant thrust of liberalized media attitudes (better suited for the pre-AIDS era) or the seeming glorification of celebrity mis-adventures does, i believe, lead to growing boys and girls becoming calloused and often misled about what girls-in-general want or value. My youngest son had the misperception that all girls his age were "in heat" and had little control over their desires and that most girls were "wanting it" badly -- as their culture-copying behaviors (e.g., thongs, tattoos, piercings, etc.) seemed to suggest. It's a valid point therefore that the adultish culture invading our children's lives can lead girls to think something other than chasity is truly expected of them...and lead boys to think girls expect to be pressured aggressively to engage in sex, whether it's protected intercourse, heated foreplay, or forcible rape. These impressions do have profound effects on their well-being. And if too many boys out there in the girls dating world are convinced that her 'no' is really a reluctant 'yes'...then this problem will probably get much worse.
With the absence of religious training that teaches that our bodies are sacred and a gift from God, then the vacuum is filled by pure narcissistic hedonism. Sex is the lowest common denominator between humans, and so nature tell us to behave like rabbits.
Unfortunately for this generation, the same "chastity" restraint ability is the same ability to restrain oneself in marriage from philandering outside the marriage - and it's called fidelity.
So you think it's bad now, wait until this generation attempts to sustain long-term relationships. With a pattern of sexual self-indulgence, giving into any and all desires, they are doomed to failure.
Who decides which books get press (this Prude book) and which get censored? After all, censorship is becoming America's favorite past-time. The US gov't (and their corporate friends), already detain protesters, ban books like "America Deceived" from Amazon and Wikipedia, shut down Imus and fire 21-year tenured, BYU physics professor Steven Jones because he proved explosives, thermite in particular, took down the WTC buildings. Free Speech forever (especially for books).Last link (before Google Books caves to pressure and drops the title):http://www.iuniverse.com/bookstore/book_detail.asp?&i...
This makes me realize how lucky I was to betaught to use intelligence. And since I was shown byexample the benefits of this, I've shared this withothers. How much talent does it take to just havesex? How much better does it make your life? Suresex is enjoyable, but should it be the most importantwhen you find you are perceived as stupid? If younggirls truly value themselves and desire some respectand admiration it sure will not come to them to themby the numbers of guys they've had sex with. Youcan have both if you so desire, but just having one while neglecting the other is not satisfying in the long run.
This is really a "hot" topic... #23 is prophetic! There used to be a commercial on T.V...about margarine.."It's NOT NICE TO FOOL MOTHER NATURE"... the same words could be used for all of us in regards to sexual behavior. STDs are on the rise.. off the chart.. the number of breast cancer cases..are also off the chart thanks to the connection to abortion and THE PILL. The "CHOICE" is clear...LIFE or DEATH...if we choose LIFE we will ACT accordingly...by cooperating with Nature and Nature's God...by keeping our passions in check .. not sabotaging ourselves by hanging out with those who would pull us down...not viewing anything...or going anywhere that would set us up for sexual disaster... Chastity is a "way of LIFE' ... even in marriage there are times when restraint is requiredIf we have not "PRACTICED" sexual control BEFORE MARRIAGE... it will be very difficult to be faithful once married. This results in divorce, single-parent families... teen pregnancies (children with no father around)... juvenile offenders.... revolving door in our prison system.. post-abortion syndrome...mental health problems... suicide... and even the complete rejection of identity with the same sex parent.. which results in more AIDS etc. and last but not least.... the rejection of CHILDREN....BECAUSE OF THE WOUNDED CHILD WITHIN.... this causes the imbalance of genders..such as China is experiencing and the strain on our National Capital...since there are less workers to take care of the elderly...and thus the NEED for EUTHANASIA... so the "CHOICE" is ours to make...LIFE or DEATH... sexual chastity or sexual devastation